Should I STAY or Should I Go?
Are you an executive woman who spent way too long living in an unhealthy marriage, wrestling with the decision should I STAY or cut my losses and LEAVE?
If you have been living in a Loveless marriage for years, it can be hard to know what the right move is. Part of you wants to Stay and Fight for the marriage, and part of you is so exhausted that you want to Give Up and Move On.
When you feel stuck, it’s easy to want to lash out and blame your partner for all their faults. Or maybe you're blaming yourself and wondering if perhaps you had been a better wife, you wouldn’t be in this situation.
Want to be done feeling like you aren’t ever enough?
You might be saying to yourself . . .
Am I not pretty enough
Am I not smart enough
Am I not worthy enough
Am I not interesting enough
Am I not sexy enough
Am I not funny enough
Or maybe I’m not… Good Enough!
HOW ABOUT… ENOUGH ALREADY!
YOU ARE ALREADY MORE THAN ENOUGH!
BUT YOU’RE NOT GOING TO BE ABLE TO MOVE FORWARD
IN YOUR MARRIAGE UNTIL YOU START TO BELIEVE THAT!
LET’S FACE IT…
If you're blaming yourself and telling yourself all these things, NO wonder you feel so CONFUSED and can’t decide. should you STAY or should you GO! Until you clear out all the fear, guilt, resentments, and junk… ONLY then can you create a life you are in LOVE with…
WHETHER IT’S WITH YOUR PARTNER OR NOT!
You need to believe, You’ve done nothing wrong. This rocky patch in your marriage doesn’t need to define you. There is no shame in what you’re going through. And love isn’t about contorting yourself to be what your partner wants you to be, it’s about… BEING YOU! And guess what? Life is brilliant on the other side.
But if you want to get to the other side it’s time to become your most UNSHAKABLE you! And I’d love to show you how!
20-min Lasting Love Discovery Session
If you’d like a taste of what my coaching can do for you, book in for my 20 min Lasting Love Discovery Session where I will help you get to the bottom of why you’ve been struggling so much to decide if you should STAY or GO.
Hello, I’m Carrie Costello,
Health and Mindset Coach, and Mentor; for executive women, who have been throttled by the BIG question “should I stay or should I go”.
I spent the last 16 years in the wellness field inspiring and guiding my clients to the belief that they are ENOUGH, to step into their authentic brilliance, capable and UNSHAKEABLE selves. Whether you decide to stay and fight for your marriage or get a divorce and create a whole new life, you will be making that decision from a place of POWER not DEFEAT.
Let’s be honest … some people will try to convince you to stay in the marriage for the kids, lifestyle, and safety. That it’s all about just putting up with the hand that life has dealt you. After all, nothing is perfect. And the idea of trying to date and find a new partner, never mind lasting LOVE with someone, all seems too hard it often feels much easier to STAY, than GO.
But at the end of the day… if you feel lonely, invisible, and know something is missing, that tugs at your heart and you want MORE. I’m here to HELP!
My Specialized Process Provides:
Sustainable Results ~ I will seek to elicit solutions and strategies from YOU because whether you believe it or not, YOU are POWERFUL, RESOURCEFUL, and have the ANSWERS within your HEART.
Lasting Change ~ I will listen BEYOND what you are saying. I will observe you closely, encourage your own self-discovery, customize your approach to BRING CLARITY to what you want, create an UNBREAKABLE mindset, and TOOLS to MOVE you forward.
Support To Thrive ~ I will help you REMOVE roadblocks that stand in your way of making this important decision, and help you unleash the skills, resources, and creativity you already have within you. To create the life you are in LOVE with whether that's in your current marriage or outside.
As your coach, I’ll support you:
Find and unshackle what you TRULY want, so you can become the most UNSHAKEABLE you!
Overcome futile beliefs and old patterns that have left you stuck in this unhappy cycle
Step out of your fears and destroy anything that’s going to hold you back.
Say goodbye to that negative voice in your head that’s telling you you’re not good enough.
Develop the confidence and trust you need to make empowered decisions about what YOU want out of life
Let go of the stress and overwhelm that has been clouding your mind and find a whole new level of inner peace
TRULY accept and love yourself exactly as you are
Get clear on what really lights you up in life… and go out there and freakin GET IT!
“We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.”
~ Maya Angelou
20-min Lasting Love Discovery Session
If you’d like a taste of what my coaching can do for you, book in for my 20 min Lasting Love Discovery Session where I will help you get to the bottom of why you’ve been struggling so much to decide if you should STAY or GO.
“In just one coaching call with Carrie I immediately felt like she was able to help bring me clarity around my business goals and personal goals, which was extremely helpful! I have felt stuck in fear in the past and not sure which next steps to take, and working with Carrie has really helped me to take the next action and believe in myself. Having her as a coach really helps me feel supported in my dreams and goals and able to push through obstacles that tend to hold me back. I have often felt like I can only have one thing at a time and with Carries coaching, she is helping me to be able to achieve all my dreams and goals!
I am so grateful to have found her as a coach and I am excited to be able to work with her to learn more tools and accomplish my goals in all areas of my life. Knowing she is in my corner to help push and guide me makes a huge difference for me in achieving my business and personal goals! ”
—Sarah Scheper.